Surrogacy Guide for Intended Parents

Welcome to our guide on surrogacy for intended parents. At Complete Surrogacy, we know the emotional journey and complexities of surrogacy. We aim to give you insights, information, and resources to help you on your path to parenthood.

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Understanding Gestational Surrogacy Process

Gestational Surrogacy is a life-changing journey for those who can’t conceive and carry a child. It involves a gestational surrogate who carries the pregnancy for the intended parents. After birth, the baby goes to the intended parents.

 

More Resources to Read:

Cost of Surrogacy in USA: What to Expect

Who Can Become Surrogate Mother: Requirements And Info

Surrogate Mother Cost for Twins: What to Expect

Average Cost for Surrogacy: Detailed Breakdown

 

Types of Surrogacy

There are mainly 2 types of surrogacies: 

1. Traditional Surrogacy: The surrogate uses her own eggs, making her genetically related to the child. This method is less common due to legal and emotional complexities. It’s not allowed in most countries. 
2. Gestational Surrogacy: This is the most common type today. It uses IVF, where the intended mother‘s or a donor’s eggs are fertilized with the intended father’s or a donor’s sperm. The embryo is then transferred to the surrogate’s uterus. She has no genetic relation to the child.

Reasons to Choose Surrogacy- Why Intended Parents Choose Surrogacy 

Many couples choose surrogacy for several reasons:

• Infertility: It’s a solution for those facing fertility challenges, including medical conditions or previous unsuccessful attempts at conception.
• Same-Sex Couples: It allows same-sex couples to become parents using their own or donor gametes.
• Medical Conditions: It may be recommended for women with medical conditions that make pregnancy unsafe or impossible.

The Process of Gestational Surrogacy

The surrogacy journey involves several key stages. Understanding each step ensures a smooth and successful experience.

1. Initial Consultation and Assessment

The journey starts with a consultation to understand your needs and expectations. We assess your eligibility and discuss options. Once we select the best program, we assist you in your journey to parenthood.

2. Matching and Legal Processes

After deciding on surrogacy, we help find a suitable surrogate. Background checks and medical screenings are done to ensure compatibility and a healthy pregnancy. Contracts outline the rights and responsibilities of all parties, including legal protection.

3. Fertility Treatments and Embryo Transfer

The intended mother or egg donor undergoes hormonal stimulation to produce eggs. These eggs are fertilized in the lab through IVF. The embryos are evaluated, and the most viable ones are selected for transfer.

Under the supervision of fertility specialists, the embryos are transferred to the surrogate’s uterus. They have the potential to implant and develop into a healthy pregnancy.

4. Pregnancy and Support

During pregnancy, the surrogate gets medical care, emotional support, and guidance from a team. Regular check-ups and necessary interventions are provided to ensure the well-being of the surrogate and the baby.

5. Birth and Post-Birth Procedures

When it’s time for delivery, our team will help you every step of the way. You can be there to see your child born and start a bond right away. After the birth, we’ll help with legal steps like getting parental rights and birth certificates.

Surrogacy and Emotional Considerations

 

Starting surrogacy can be tough emotionally. We offer support and counseling to help you through it. We’re here to help you deal with the ups and downs.

How to Build a Relationship with Surrogates?

It’s key to have a good relationship with your surrogate. Talk often, respect each other, and understand each other. This makes a strong surrogacy partnership.

We encourage you to stay close with your gestational carrier during and after pregnancy. This helps a lot.

• Addressing Concerns and Expectations

Surrogacy can bring up many questions and worries. We’re here to help you with these concerns. Our experts will guide you through any challenges.

• Legal Aspects of Surrogacy

Surrogacy laws vary a lot. It’s important to know the laws in your area. This helps you understand what to expect.

• International Surrogacy

For international surrogacy, you need to check laws in both your country and the surrogacy country. 

Getting advice from lawyers who know about international surrogacy can be very helpful.

• Parental Rights and Legal Protections

It’s crucial to protect your rights as parents. Working with experts in reproductive law can help you with this. They’ll make sure your rights are secure.

Financial Considerations for intended parents. 

Surrogacy has many financial parts to think about. These include:

• Surrogate Compensation: The surrogate gets paid for her time and effort.
• Medical Expenses: You’ll pay for the surrogate’s medical care and delivery costs.
• Legal Fees: There are fees for legal work, like making contracts and securing your rights.
• Agency Fees: If you use a surrogacy agency, they’ll charge fees for their help.

Starting surrogacy is a big step. We’re here to help you every step of the way. 

Before starting, think about these things:

Personal consideration for intended parents.

1. Is surrogacy really the best way for you to have a child? It’s a big decision, especially for hetero couples.
2. Do you have support for the challenges of caring for a newborn?
3. Are you ready to talk to your child about how they were conceived? Meeting the surrogate or donor might be part of that.
4. You might want to use your own egg or someone you know instead of an anonymous donor. Make sure to talk about this ahead of time.

Financial consideration for intended parents. 

1. Have you fully understood the most likely financial surrogacy cost breakdown? The cost of full program IVF, egg donor surrogate mother is high in the US. But, there are affordable options too. Make sure you explore all your choices. The total cost might be more than you expected! 
2. Take the cost of surrogacy with a breakdown. Think about all parts of the surrogacy cost. This includes the egg donor fee, legal fee, and more. It’s a long list, but it gives you an idea of the likely cost. 
3. Sometimes, one embryo transfer works, but not always. Be ready for 1-3 attempts. Some agencies offer all-inclusive guaranteed plans. This can give you peace of mind. 
4. Keep 10% of total cost aside, for unexpected costs like twins or premature delivery. Always ask for a detailed price list. This should include what’s included and when you need to pay. 

Legal Consideration for intended parents. 

1. Do the reproductive laws in your country allow you to engage in surrogacy at home and/or abroad?
2. Have you engaged with other successful parents who have already gone through surrogacy? Their experiences can be helpful. 
3. Is there an established process for granting citizenship to a child born through a gestational surrogate mother? Contact your country’s embassy for advice. 
4. If considering surrogacy abroad options (which you might for some good reasons), think about the time you’ll need away from home. This includes travel, documentation, and caring for the baby. 

Medical Consideration for intended parents.

1. Do you ask for a success rate of embryo transfer in a surrogate mother with/without an egg donor?
2. If you need PGD for genetic testing of embryos/gender selection, this is available at extra cost. 
3. The law regarding the number of embryo transfers in surrogates. If you want twins, how can they help? 
4. Have you understood the potential health risks of twin pregnancies? These include extra costs and a higher risk of health problems. 

So, choosing a healthy singleton is best. But, about 1 in 5 IVF pregnancies result in twins. 

5. What is the IVF clinic consideration when choosing a surrogate mother? Look for someone with her own kids and no emotional issues. 
6. Ask for a brief overview of prenatal care for the surrogate mother. Find out how often you’ll get updates and see her progress. 
7. Discuss your surrogate delivery options, if any- Which hospital and how much is it going to cost?

Surrogacy Agency Consideration for intended parents. 

1. Finding an experienced and reputed surrogacy agency is key. A caring professional makes the journey better and less stressful. 
2. How long have they been in business? It’s smart to pick an agency with at least 5 years of experience. They know the challenges and how to handle them.
3. How many cases they have done– especially for your country’s citizens. This shows how well they handle your specific case.
4. What type of medical/emotional/ psychological checks and support they offer to surrogates? Check if they support them before, during, and after the program.
5. How do they take payments and what stages? Avoid agencies that take too much money upfront. The payment plan should be clear, with most money paid after the baby’s heartbeat is confirmed. What’s the refund policy if there’s a miscarriage?
6. If using a gestational carrier from your own country/another country, talk about the arrangement well. Ensure you’re both on the same page about contact during and after pregnancy.
7. How smoothly the agency and IVF Clinic coordinate with each other as they should work together well.
8. Do you have 24-hour emergency support? How quickly can they help you in emergencies?
9. The frequency and promptness of communications. Is the team helpful and quick to respond? You’ll talk a lot, so trust and compassion are key.

Surrogacy is a popular way for gay couples to become parents, thanks to IVF.

There’s growing acceptance of gay parents, but there are challenges too.

 

More Resources to Read:

IVF with Egg Donation in Ukraine

Surrogacy for HIV+ Intended Parents in Ukraine

Is Surrogacy in Ukraine legal?

Affordable Surrogacy in Ukraine for Married Couples

 

Challenges for same-sex surrogacy arrangements

1. The gay men’s surrogacy options are fewer and close each year. Many agencies are closing due to ethical reasons.
2. Egg donor requirement- Gay couples need an egg donor and a surrogate mother. The donor can be a friend, family, or anonymous. The baby will be half biologically linked to one of them. The egg donor cost is extra for gay men or single-male programs.
3. Not all IVF Clinics offer IVF/Surrogacy Services to gay men. They must find a Clinic that accepts gay men. Most agencies are welcoming to all Intended Parents.
4. Finding a surrogate mother who is passionate and open to working with gay men.
5. First, you need to decide on which partner going to be biologically related to the child. You can choose one or both partners to be involved. You might split the eggs and implant them in different carriers.
6. Name on Baby Birth Certificate- In most countries, the biological father and surrogate mother’s names are on the certificate. 

It’s hard for them to get both parents’ names on the certificate. Only a few states in the USA, like California, allow both parents’ names on the birth certificate.

Contact us today to learn more about our services. We can help you achieve your dream of parenthood.

If you’d like to learn more about IVF, Egg Donation, or surrogacy services globally, check out the rest of our website at  Ukraine Surrogacy Agency. We offer legally secure and affordable surrogacy consulting services for FREE.

Our team has over 14 years of experience facilitating surrogacy arrangements, egg donation, and serving as an advocacy resource for infertile couples and LGBTQ individuals seeking to build families.

Get in touch for FREE SURROGACY CONSULTING:

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